
“You’ll probably feel uncomfortable and exposed at first, but you’ll also find that the world is a lot more fun when you approach it with an exuberant imperfection.” from Chris Baty’s “No Plot? No Problem!“
What great advice! Imagine how fun life would be if every picture didn’t have to be a masterpiece, if every word written didn’t need to be great prose, every note sung, perfect.
What happens to that free abandon of childhood? Are we so beaten down by the possibility of embarrassment or failure that we can’t move forward at all? I’m not talking about blame. We could spend a life time trying to identify some distant point of blame and try to emotionally confront our past…just ask any Scientologist. Let’s focus on now.
Is this an insurmountable problem as an adult? Perhaps these bad habits of perfectionism can be relearned. For example, the wonderful writer Anne Lamott in “Bird by Bird” encourages us to throw off the shackles of perfection and allow for creativity to happen,
“For me and most of the other writers I know, writing is not rapturous. In fact, the only way I can get anything written at all is to write really, really shitty first drafts…. The first draft is the child’s draft, where you let it all pour out and then let it romp all over the place, knowing that no one is going to see it and that you can shape it later.”

I run into this frequently. The fear, or belief that anything done must be perfect the first time, right from the start, is crippling. Believe this long enough, and you end up just sitting in the dark, or worse watching television 
Well, it’s time to get some things done, take a chance or two, do something outside my comfort zone. It’s time to embrace exuberant imperfection.